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RIP Stassie Baby (FBF) [VIDEO]

2024-07-19 01:03:14

The most-listened to podcast by women. Alex Cooper’s Call Her Daddy has been creating conversation since 2018. Cooper cuts through the BS with topics and guests - asking the burning questions you want the answers to. There will be laughter, there will be tears. There will be everything in between. New episodes drop on Wednesday and Sunday. Want more? Join the Daddy Gang @callherdaddy

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okay, how did you decide to start an alcohol brand? I love to drink.

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And here we go, we have not had one drink yet, let me be so clear.

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okay, what are we making today? we're gonna make a sunny soda with a little lemon.

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how much ice do we want? just a little bit. a good amount. I'm gonna measure it out today, just so we know exactly how many. and these cute chocolates that I made.

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oh my god, it's so cute. do we want a single shot or a double shot? I think a double. and I think we.

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should make these and then I think we should also maybe bring a shot up. oh, we're bringing the bottle.

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oh, we're bringing the bottle. okay, and then I just do, like you know, half of a small lemon. cheers. cheers. oh, this is good.

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do you want more lemon? I want more lemon. okay, stop to make a pretty good drink.

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what is up, daddy gang? it is your founding father, Alex Cooper. we call her daddy.

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good boy, Henry. I hope you say that the entire time. I hope he comes up here to cuddle me. oh.

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Speaker 1
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yeah, but you don't like dogs. I do. I like other people's dogs. oh, just not your own.

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no, no, no, I didn't give her away. yeah, let's clear the rumors up. clear the rumors. my sister moved in with me. my dog became so attached.

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like Stoss got rid of her dog. no. she became so attached to my sister that when my sister moved out, she became depressed. and now she lives with my sister and is so happy and I see her. I'm her.

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Speaker 2
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still her mom. right. but like I'm, like her stepmom. but through, through you, like losing ownership of.

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Speaker 1
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your dog. you've realized. that I'm a cat person. did you get a cat? um, I'm looking at a few, but a lot of my friends are allergic to cats, which is like a problem.

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why do I feel like you're better?

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Speaker 2
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off with like a goldfish? you're kind of like a. I'm giving goldfish. you're giving goldfish fives. only because I feel like you travel a lot.

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like you've got a lot going on like ooh, where's the?

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Speaker 1
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cat? like. the thing about cats is like they take care of themselves. basically. okay, right.

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so you.

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basically want a low, low maintenance, any kind of animal. just any kind of affection. like you'd like it to be there, but when you don't want to work with it, like figure it out yourself. exactly.

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Speaker 1
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okay, welcome to call her daddy. look, who's here. hey guys. Stoss is here. hey guys.

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how are you feeling right now? cheers, first. cheers. so happy to have you here. disclaimer.

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I don't do podcasts. I don't do interviews. I've done one podcast with Zane and Heath, my close friends, but I just get so nervous when I'm talking to people, especially when there's cameras and lighting, and you know I don't know what they're gonna ask me. I also say like and um all the time, and I feel like it makes me sound really stupid. so I hate that.

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but you know, I just have anxiety. why do you think you get so nervous to do like interviews? I honestly have no idea. okay. like nothing bad has like happened in the past.

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right. or anything to like trigger it. I feel like it's just so like you have to be so careful with your words and like I never want to offend anyone or like say anything that will like hurt anyone's feelings or anything like that, or like say something that like I'm just in the middle of rambling and then it's like not actually what I mean. I appreciate.

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that, but I appreciate you sitting down with me. I know. because I'm just gonna roast your. ah, no, I'm just kidding. you're like what?

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I'm like. hold on, this isn't what I signed up for. dude. my first question is was today a typical day for you? what'd you do today?

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like we're easy.

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Speaker 1
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I went to the gynecologist. oh my god, how did it go? it was great. it was just like a routine.

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Speaker 2
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checkup. okay, people are like fascinated by you, so I want to get more granular, like what is a morning routine of Stassi baby? oh gosh, um, it depends. I wake up, I work out. I love to work.

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out. it's like my therapy. so I work out. I'll call my manager right away, after we'll go through the day, see if I have anything that I need to do. if we have any meetings, you know we do a little quick rundown and then I'll get my protein smoothie.

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and then you know, just chill, get ready, go to lunch, take photos, do meetings. what a life. just relax. I don't know. it really depends.

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every day is different. what time do you usually wake up? nine. do you usually have people sleeping in your bed with you? all?

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my girlfriends sleep over all the time and like, hopefully if I have.

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a man, but. if you, if you do have a guy, do you go to their place or do they come to you? I like to.

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stay at my house. that was like I like to stay at my house. I like to stay at my house because I have my makeup wipes. my house is like catered to my guests because my friends are over all the time. so I have like a hundred extra toothbrushes, toothpaste, deodorant like I have, like mini toiletries for everyone to like have their set when they come over, and I don't want to go to someone's house and then wake up, not have my makeup wipes like just a whole thing.

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and it was like I would look so much better if I was just moisturized. I just need a little bit of moisture.

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Speaker 2
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like maybe a little bit of foundation here and then like we're good to go. good morning babe. morning. okay. so where did the nickname Stassi baby come from?

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god, I honestly don't know, because.

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it was so long ago. I was like 13, like when I first made my Instagram Stassi baby. so I just remember it was my name's Anastasia. no one could say my name, so it got shortened to Stassi. now it's just Stass, but it was shortened to Stassi.

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and then I was like oh, it's something cute, I can make my Instagram with Stassi. and then I was just like throw baby, like Stassi, baby. dude, and it's.

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Speaker 2
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literally stayed with you for so long until recently you changed. this was like news. I know. you changed your.

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Speaker 1
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Instagram name. everyone was pissed. dude, why did you change it? I just felt like it was the. it was time to end the era.

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it was time for a new one. wait, no, you need to walk me through like when did it hit you? I'm not, Stassi.

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baby anymore like. I'm not a baby, I'm a woman. oh my god. I'm an entrepreneur. wow.

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I want to be taken seriously. I respect that, but you've kept the Stassi baby handle. yeah, I have it, so I use it as like my public. finsta. I haven't posted on it in a while.

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do you feel like you miss it at all? sometimes.

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I kind of miss it and I don't even know you. I'm like calling you Stass. is it okay if I call you?

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Speaker 1
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okay, I hate when people call me Stassi. wait and can you pronounce your full name? Anastasia?

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wait, that sounded like um vampire diaries. oh, stop it. you know, that's my favorite show. shut up. I've seen all eight seasons 30 times.

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I am so upset. I remember I used to just like cry. I was so obsessed with Damon and Elena, and I was just like the whole. oh, should we start watching it and stop podcasting. I'm on season three right now.

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I just restarted it. do it every single time. it's like the vampire shit same with twilight like I'm obsessed. oh obsessed. it sounds like the um Klaus's.

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what is Klaus's last name? uh, Michaelson.

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okay, you want to quiz me on vampire diaries?

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Speaker 1
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I could do that. I would do that easier. I could. I could quiz easier vampire diaries than talking.

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about myself. okay, so you change your instagram handle. you're no longer Stassi baby. do people, when they meet you out, call you Stassi baby? no.

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just Stassi? just Stassi. what if you meet like fans?

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Speaker 1
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like. are they like Stassi? Stassi. uh, sometimes Stassi baby, like when I was in Paris. Stassi baby.

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Speaker 2
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you're like. I'm not a baby, I'm a woman. the rebrand is strong. okay, I respect it. okay, you grew up.

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let's just do like a little background. okay, here we go. I want to hear this. you're like, okay drink.

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Speaker 1
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I've already taken like four sips without you.

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you grew up in LA. what did you want to be when you were younger? a makeup artist.

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Speaker 1
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wow. my mom was a makeup artist, so I wanted to be a makeup artist. do you do your makeup a lot by yourself, or do you get glam? I get glam a lot, but I do my makeup a lot. I'm very specific with glam, so if I don't have my people that I trust, then I'd rather do it myself.

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did you do this yourself?

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no. okay, I was gonna say sweetie, I need to book you, because, whoa, I don't even see a fucking pore. like. you look perfect right now. in person.

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thank you. yeah, you look great. I love how you add it in person. you look awful on Instagram, but in person, my god, this is just fire. no, your skin looks amazing.

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you look great. thank you. did you have dreams of being famous when you were younger? not at all. did anyone in your family?

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was anyone in your family famous? no, everyone thinks like.

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my, my family's like, not even like didn't? I didn't come from money like I. just got like thrown into.

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this world. people can like, come up with these storylines of like where you're from and like I would assume, a lot of people think like, oh, she's just like a rich bitch, just because of, like the crowd you roll in and like what your life looks like now. like I take care of my family. damn, so you really are. that's good thing.

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you dropped the baby. you are a fucking woman. this is literally. you're coming out as like a full rebrand. oh my gosh.

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you were homeschooled in high school. mm-hmm. what led to that decision? to pull you out of school? uh, there's like a lot of reasons why I.

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was homeschooled. one. I think I didn't like really mesh with a lot of people at the schools that I went to. okay. um, a lot of my friends were homeschooled.

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my mom is an addict. so growing up like there was just a lot of commotion going on and like we switched schools a bunch because we were moving around like lived with my aunt or my grandma and my dad, and like it was just like a whole thing. so it was just easier to be homeschooled so that we could like take our school work with us. um so, your sister was homeschooled with you? my sister was too.

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and it's just you and.

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Speaker 2
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your sister? me and my sister. you've been open about, like social anxiety. can you explain what?

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Speaker 1
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social anxiety looks like for you? oh gosh, I don't know. I just like. it's when I'm around or when I'm in situations where I don't feel like super comfortable or like I don't know a lot of people or just feel like I'm. I shouldn't be there like I'm out of place.

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like even when I was just at the Oscar parties, like I felt so awkward being there that I was like why am I here? it's like what am I doing here? it's like why am I invited to this place? and then I just get so in my head about it that I just like keep spiraling and then I'm just spiraling and spiraling and then.

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do you think that that's? it's gotten worse, as you've like gotten bigger?

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Speaker 1
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yes and no. like it's easier to deal with because I feel like I've, you know, accepted it more and like talking about it like helps so much. like even the fact that I would like try and hide it and then I just like sit here and have mini panic attacks by myself, but even me coming here and like, hey, I'm so nervous. yeah, like talking about it and like letting people know helps so much because then they like work with me on it and I don't feel so like scared. I get what you're.

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saying like I didn't really have ever social anxiety in my life until, like the past few years. and I feel the same way with you like when I walk into dude. the event I saw you at, I was fully having a panic attack and when I saw you, we had met once over FaceTime and I, like, latched you and I'm like hey, stop, you're like. what's your name? again I'm like.

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no, I know, I know, but we. but it's like when you're in environments where, like I, don't usually go to those events. so I can relate. is there anything?

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your friends do to help you in those moments? um yeah, like I'll, if I'm feeling really like weird and uncomfortable, I start to like kind of separate. like not even separate. like I'll still be standing right next to them, but I'll allow, like, the circle to kind of close a little, where I'll kind of just be staring at everyone's backs and they like know to make sure it's open. and, like my friend the other day, like put his hand around my waist and like pushed me into the circle so that I could be part of the conversation.

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he's like stop, like putting yourself like stop not.

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talking. when you were younger, even though you had social anxiety. like, were you like what was?

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your personality. were you outgoing, shy? I honestly don't think I had social anxiety until people started knowing who I was so like until like my instagram started to grow. that's when I like got nervous because I was like a crazy child. I would love to like put on performances for my, like my family, my my dad had these like medicine balls and I would like put them in my, like my little tank top that had a built-in bra when I was like seven and like start bouncing them up because like I was just like funny and like super outgoing and then one day I was just like.

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Speaker 2
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became a little hermit. yes, your life changed at 13 years old, when you became friends with someone who's one of the most famous people now in the world. but from what I read, you met at a bookstore.

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where did you read this? dude? I read it online at Barnes and Noble. I was like did Stossberg read?

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Barnes and Noble? we did read a Barnes and Noble. okay, thank you, you're like. where did you read that? I'm like, is it true?

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you're like? yeah, I worked there, but like. how do people know that? dude, I don't know. I was literally just googled it.

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I was googling you. okay, I was doing my due diligence. okay, but how did attending a fan event turn into like? oh, it wasn't a fan event. wait, I.

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thought it was like. it was like. no, no, we were holding we. oh, we did take a photo like. maybe that's how people know we were holding like books.

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but it was like a fully friend. hang out like my friend, who was good friends with her, brought me and we all, like, met up like in there's this place called the Calabasas commons. okay, and when we were in middle school it was Friday night. curfew was 10 p.m Friday night. if you weren't dropped off at the commons at 7 p.m like you weren't, you weren't cool.

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so you get dropped off at 7 p.

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m walk around like go into the restaurants and like just do a bunch of shit stupid, like literally walk back and forth, up and down. yeah, yeah. and so we met at Barnes & Nobles at one of the Friday hangs. I quite literally not at a fucking fan event, dude, I was like. I just have to ask you this one question.

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I literally thought you showed up to her book release and I was like damn like. Stas met Kylie at a book release and then they became besties and I was gonna ask you I'm like. how did you like go up and approach her to be friends? if she's like signing your book, I was just like. did she write about your number?

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Stas did not ever work at Barnes & Noble. okay, can you at least explain how did you meet? because after that, your life, we met through friends. okay, so when was the first time that you remember being like photographed by paparazzi? oh um, honestly like not the not within.

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like the first like year of our friendship. okay, like like after we were really friends, like after we were already, you know, then we and we would also used to like fuck with them. like there's photos of us in like juicy tracksuits and like we didn't know what the paparazzi was like. it was so new. uh me, to me one, but to her too.

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so there's photos and we would be like like posing for them.

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literally would do that. there's photos on the internet. was it weird? I'm trying to put myself in like 14 year old. oh, it was so weird, but it was also like funny.

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yeah, like it was like I was.

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Speaker 2
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like what is happening. what did your family think about you being like starting to become in the?

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Speaker 1
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public eye. I don't even know. I haven't even asked them call your dad right now. I mean I know that they're proud of me. okay, I just like.

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I don't know what they thought about it when I was younger. that's actually a good question. I want to ask him like what did you think I'm trying to think of?

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Speaker 2
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like you're technically is still a high schooler. he probably thought it was so weird. did he like ever tell you not to go out or something like? were they strict? no, no, they weren't strict.

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Speaker 1
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so you got to just like I had a curfew, but like I like practically lived at Kylie's house.

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Speaker 2
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so you were just like doing your thing and like your parents weren't? like freaking out, like we saw these photos and you're giving gang signs like dad. that's they like. they have my location.

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Speaker 1
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like on my phone. my dad still has my location on my phone because I'll like fly to New York and forget to like tell him that I'm leaving. so if he doesn't have my location, he has a panic attack. so he has my location on on his phone. he always has he's like are you in, you know, still like?

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oh sorry, oh sorry, he's like we were supposed to have dinner tonight across the world. sorry, I'm at the club. um no, I just like, would check in with them. I call them every hour, okay, always keep them updated on like where I was. so I was good about that.

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so they trusted me, yeah, and they also like, would always talk to my friend's parents before, like I would even sleep at someone's house and then once, like they got to like know, yeah, what I was doing and like where I was going and knew.

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that I was safe then they were just chill, being 14 years old and like having pictures taken of you, and it must have been weird for you, because you're like. I know that I'm like I'm not doing much like I'm just standing here, like why I'm just like getting my photo taken, like it's a weird experience. but now are you used to paparazzi? yeah, like you're not freaked out by it anymore. does it give you social anxiety, though, because I'm not talking?

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you're like I look so fucking good, I'm not talking and I just like walk. okay, so that so it's mostly talking. yes, you're okay, getting photographed I'm.

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Speaker 1
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completely fine getting photographed. I actually love photo shoots, one of my favorite things to do. really I love to like get dressed up and do a photo shoot, get hair and makeup and like put a cool outfit on and take photos. it's only talking. I don't know why it's talking with.

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it's honestly with camera, without camera like speaking. it's just speaking. for some reason it throws me off when I'm not comfortable with the person. okay, got it. but even like now, like I'm, obviously I'm more comfortable.

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like we have a little bit of vodka, that's hot. yeah, okay, I'm taking another.

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Speaker 2
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sip. okay, that was, that was it this? so far, you're okay, right, this is not painful, you're doing great.

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Speaker 1
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oh, this is fun. I like your little, like you know research too. let me just clarify one more time.

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Speaker 2
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Stas did not work at Barnes & Noble. I was not a fan at a book reading when I was reading. I'm sorry, I can't get over it. that's like the one trailer of the episode. is that what it says?

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he literally said Stas went to Barnes & Noble for a fan book signing and met Kylie there, and I was like, damn, like, like. how did people can now look up to you? like dreams do come true, man, like people like I wanted to be friends with Harry Styles. you just walk right into the book signing and baboom start talking to him. Stas will give you the advice on how to do it.

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you created a business for yourself on social media. you've bought a house. wait, did. I sold my house. you're moving a lot.

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you got a dog. you're done with the dog. you already sold your house. I sold my house and I'm doing like a lease back right now. didn't you literally just renovate the entire fucking thing?

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I redid.

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the backyard, because the part where you're supposed to like tan was it was like shady all day. so I moved the tanning portion. do you tan your face? no, neither. I wear a hat, yeah, and then I'll like put the towel.

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I love the definitive like. no, this part of my body is safe and this part is so smart, but I always I like, really I'm really bad with my body. okay, because I love to be like super dark. I get spray tans weekly, so when it's summer and it's hot out and the uv is high, I'm out there just like.

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cooking. it's creepy that we all know each other's lives through Instagram and I'm like you just and you're like I've never had you over. I'm like. I think I saw it on social media. I'm like what.

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about the backyard. I mean that's kind of what you sign up for when you post your shit all over.

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YouTube and Instagram, and wow, so now you're looking for a new house. yeah, does it feel surreal?

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to you that you can, just like, do this or you kind of oh, 100% like. it's so weird and I honestly, like a lot of the times, feel what's the right word here. I feel I wouldn't say bad, but I, it makes me feel weird because my family is not in the same like position as I am. so I feel weird being like, oh, I want this, this and this, and then, like my dad's in an apartment, and then I'm like how am I getting this big house for myself but not get it like not getting him a house dude or my sister a or like? you know?

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it just makes me feel weird sometimes. listen, I totally get that I'm in a.

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similar situation right now where, like it's, it's amazing. you for yourself, yeah, having success, but when you change your lifestyle, like, it's weird to have. like, you want to take care of everyone, but you also have to live for the rest of your life and take care of yourself, and you don't know how it's all gonna like long. it's gonna last. you gotta be smart.

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it's like it's a lot. it's a lot.

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we're transitioning to fun. okay, you can only smoke weed or drink for the rest of your life.

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drink. I get like panic attacks when I smoke weed. I was gonna ask do you smoke? I don't smoke. I can smoke.

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I can smoke with my two friends, Sydney and Victoria, if I've had a little to drink and we've all had a little to drink. because when I smoke I feel like I get so stupid and I laugh at everything for too long and all my friends smoke all the time so they don't get as affected as I do with weed. so I'm sitting there and I'm like I feel so self-conscious. it amplifies my anxiety because even with my best fucking friends I'm like I feel like I'm being weird right now. like why did I just say that?

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or why did I laugh so long? or whatever it is like. oh, this one time I got high and I was by myself and I went upstairs and went to bed and then I was like my. I like hit the stove. I turned the stove on when I was walking upstairs.

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walk back downstairs. turn, make sure all the knobs are good. walk upstairs, my hip like touches the stove. I get back in bed. oh my god, my hip touched the stove.

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it turned the stove on my. my gas is on, so I go downstairs eye level with the stove like checking all the knobs, like I get so paranoid. it's like.

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this isn't fun, dude, you're like. is someone in my house right now? yes, like, and you know like everything, dude, I. I relate to that a lot, though, because smoking can be so fun at times if you're trying alone, but in a group setting like, you've got to really have some tolerance, because you can fucking go down a spiral, and the saddest thing, though, is when you're sitting there with your.

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thoughts like did I just sound dumb and you can't get rid of it like how do you get rid of it? okay,

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so you're drinking for the rest of your life. no smoking, no smoking. okay. if your best friend was here right now, how would she describe drunk Stassi? hmm, I don't know.

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fun, crazy, the life of the party. I love that answer. you kind of exude that energy. thanks. what is to you, life of the party mean?

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I don't know. I just like to make sure everyone's having a good time. everyone's like flowing, dancing. everything's set up good, the vibes are great, everyone's comfortable. you're this like caring, loving, maternal.

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my friends call me mama like I have a group chat with me and all my boys.

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I have a group chat with me and all my guy friends and it's called mama and her boys.

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okay, so you kind of are like this maternal figure. where did that come from? I honestly don't know.

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I've always been like that. that's interesting, always, like everyone calls me when they need some.

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like help with something. do you think you're a people pleaser, probably a little. do you ever feel like, with all of your life successes and like your fame like? do you ever feel like you're like?

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taking advantage of? I don't think so. I feel like I have a really small group of people around me. smart, I mean not small. I have a group to have like nine people, like nine people, but like out of those people like I don't, I'm not close with anyone else got it like I don't tech, like we have a group chat and yeah, it has nine people, but that's the only the only thing I text in all day.

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if it's not like my family, okay, we're at a pre-game, okay.

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where is Stassi? are you at the aux cord? are you pouring shots? are you taking pictures of the girls?

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like definitely pouring shots, okay, definitely making the drink and taking photos. love that. we like to like get ready and then everyone will meet at my house and then we'll make drinks and.

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make tiktoks okay. so your pre-game is everyone gets ready alone, like makeup. we get, we get ready.

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on facetime. love that if we're. if we're, if we're not together, we're getting ready on facetime. do you coordinate outfits? no, we don't coordinate, but we tell each other what each other is wearing so we can catch a vibe.

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so make sure we're all like on the same vibe. no one's in like a dress and stilettos and sneakers and pants, like if one's gonna be uncomfortable. we're all gonna be uncomfortable. if someone's gonna be comfortable, we're all gonna be comfortable. remember when you.

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were younger. i don't know if you ever had this, but when girls were like insecure and they would like want their friend and not look as good and they're like you should wear, that i don't understand.

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that i'm the first person to be like bitch. take that off. you look nuts. that does not look good. sell those jeans.

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go to wasteland, dude, i respect that, because it's like. that means you're secure with yourself that you're not trying to like i'm. just. others look ugly around, like. why would you want that like?

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i don't. i never understood that mentality, because i just want everyone to feel comfortable and look good, feel good totally and like, feel good with themselves, and then everyone has so much more fun when you feel like good about totally how like you're like as shitty as that kind of sounds it. no, it makes you feel better to go out when you feel good about your appearance.

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and that's just it. like if i look like shit, i'm like fuck. you're so right because, like, there's nothing better than going out one night and when you're like i look fucking amazing, you have a.

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fucking you like. exude that energy and everyone like, and then everyone's like kind of drawn to you. that's why i'm like confidence, like no matter what, even when i feel the shittiest. if i'm leaving my house, i'm like you're a fucking sexy bitch and then i walk out the door and i just will think that and, you know, have drinks to make myself think that even more. try and exude that energy, because if i don't, then i'm just gonna be sitting there like thinking about it all night when you.

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leave the house, what is like a night where you're like oh, fuck, like i don't. i feel ugly, like what would you? is there something like you sometimes have worn that you're like? why did i do this? or like a hairstyle you've ever tried like?

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when are you like fuck? why did i do that? i won't like i'll.

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just go fix it okay, because i'm like i can't have fun. i'm like why would i go to? like i'll be 20 minutes late to this dinner and like feel better about myself than to sit there the whole time and not talking to anyone, and like maybe coming off as rude or like you know, not engaging, oh my god.

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henry. okay, so you're. you're just saying like you will be rather late than like feel like shit.

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yeah, because i'm like more. you know just me like talkative. just feeling good, are you usually on?

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time. you're like. you know what we don't need to call each other. i like to say i'm on time.

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most of the time.

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next question okay, i try to be, but sometimes you can't help it. you know what, though? i respect that.

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and i'm actually gonna take that from you of like. if you don't feel good, why not be 20 minutes late, especially if it's with like a group of friends going out and fucking. make sure you feel better.

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about yourself like i don't need to rush myself to go to dinner at the nice guy like you do not need to like i get it if it's like an event and like you have to be there at a certain time and you know you're gonna miss the event. if you don't, then then that's the situation where, like you get ready, i get ready like three hours before i'm supposed to leave my house and glam only takes two hours. so i give myself an extra hour in case the glam goes longer, in case i need to fix something, in case my outfit doesn't end up working out, like i always give myself extra time when i know that there's actually a time. i need to be somewhere very smart. but if it's just like a random night and i end up hating something, i'm like, okay, leave without me.

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i'll meet you guys.

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there you're like meet you at craig's in 45 minutes. we'll fucking catch you later. order my honey truffle chicken, the bread, so good. okay, what is your ideal night out?

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i love to have nights at my house are my favorite nights, fun. so i love to. we'll have like dinner at my dining room table, like set it up all cute, and then we'll go to my living room and my kitchen and we'll just like play games. and do you like going to clubs? still, i i go to clubs every once in a while, but i'm not really a club girl i like to be able to have, which this is gonna contradict everything i'm saying.

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i like to have conversations. like i have social anxiety. i hate speaking, but i love conversation, but like house parties with my friends. yeah, that doesn't give me anxiety, okay, that makes sense. so i like to be able to.

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in a club you can't like have conversation. you're all just standing there, dancing, listening to music and drinking totally. there's no any sort of talking happening, unless you want to scream to the person next to you. no, no, so i like to be able to like sit down, talk, go outside, you know, just dance. yeah, yeah, i get that.

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okay, you have a lot of friends.

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the internet is fascinated by your girl group and i guess guy group, because you literally just said.

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there's nine people in your group. well, that's like my girl group chat. i have a few, my boy, my guy. one is separate. how many group chats do you have?

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i have like four or five, but some of them, like, are with other people with like at it like they're confusing. okay, like we have one with all, all nine of us, and then i have one with like five of them and like two other friends, and then i have one with my two friends that are in the nine group chat. but we just like, i don't know, they're all.

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it's all confusing. who is your go-to, though, like when you're dealing with family shit or like you get bad news, my friend victoria? okay, that's your go-to. how long have you guys known each other for like 10 years? how do you think outsiders view your friend group?

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i would hope that they would.

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like think it was cute. like we're all just we all just like love each other so much and like support every little thing that we do and just want, like each other, to succeed, when i would hope that would like make other friend groups want to do that first, like what you were talking about earlier, when friend groups like want someone to like not look good, so they look better. like we genuinely just want all of all of us to like succeed and like do the best that.

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we could do and we're fun. okay, i was gonna say like if someone walks into a party and your whole group is there, are you guys like the loud ones, the fun ones like intimidating, like what do you think is your vibe? i think we're fun and i think we, i think you're really intimidating. oh right, right.

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you're like. oh, i thought we were fun. i thought i think we like tap into everyone. okay, you do like, because when we go out we have our core group and we'll start together and we'll all put our stuff down at like the same table. okay, but then like, i won't see like some of them for the whole night.

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okay, because we like tap into everyone. that's around us, that's fine, and then.

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sometimes we have nights where we're just like okay, that's fun to know. so if people see you out like, it's not like. you're like we only sit together. you're not like the mean girls. not, you're like we're not moving.

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i don't know. okay, that's good. who in your friend group matches your party energy? all of them. we're all psycho.

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you're like every single one of the nine.

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oh crazy, really well, mainly i would say it's like me, victoria carter, sydney, it's all of us drew kelsey like wait, no, we're all it's i would. yeah, we're all nuts. i'm wondering, why do i feel?

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like you're the type of person that, like someone, wouldn't know that you're like that. fucked up, okay.

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everyone tells me that, like i read your like, i will be like black out and wake up with the hangover scaries and be like you guys, what the fuck did i do last night? i was blacked out and it would be like you were drunk. i thought you were sober. dude, i don't you give off that vibe that, like you, keep your shit together. but once you know me, i have this look in my eye and you.

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can tell that no one's home. when is the last time you like had like an awful fucking like? i don't even know the last time i like, threw up from alcohol, like i've never thrown up from alcohol.

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okay, the biggest flex she's ever come at me with. actually i did throw up once when i was like oh.

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you're like, cut that out. okay, it's okay. the police aren't gonna come in here and be like.

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you drank at 13 saucy. i wasn't actually. i was like i was definitely like 15. it's okay, i drank it. i think a lot of, but i like to be dramatic.

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i was definitely like 15, 16. okay, i'm gonna get arrested. i'm like 25. do you get hungover sometimes depending on like? okay, so okay, she's like here we go, here we go, here we go.

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if i take, like you know, those little puff things, yeah, yeah, if i have a and i'm drinking and like, sometimes i'll say like i'm a social smoker, like i love to like, hit a little something when i'm drinking. if i hit a puff, i wake up, so hungover, because i feel like once i hit it once, then i'm like addicted to it, got it and i want to hit it all night, and then i'm smoking this little fucking vape all night and you can smoke them anywhere. i don't know what it does to me. i get so hungover, but if i have like a little hit of a cigarette, i'm fine. so you don't get that hungover, though, but it's from those like if you're just drinking.

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okay, if i'm just drinking, then i'm.

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fine you were. i have to ask this. you were part of a dramatic friend scandal breakup. are you still?

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friends with jordan wood. oh no, okay, okay, okay, let's drink. um for my own, for my own reasons, i would like to. this is the first time i i'm ever saying this, but it's for my own reasons. okay, it's not.

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i wasn't following anyone else. i've had my own reasons.

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and that's it. love the clarification.

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you have vlogs where you're very open about the work that you have had done. how did you come to the decision to be so open about it and, like vlog, about certain things?

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hmm, i don't like. i feel like everyone. there's such a stigma on plastic surgery and i feel like whether you say that you've done it or whether you don't say you've done it. people are going to find a way to say something about it and like, make it a negative thing, and i just like, don't really care for me. i was just like.

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this is what's happening in my life and you know i'm vlogging.

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about it. i always see comments of people being like you need to own up. yeah, you need to own up.

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you need to tell everyone, and then it's also. no one needs to tell anyone anything if they don't.

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want to, then if they do come out and say it, it's like we knew it. you fake bitch and it's like you're so fake like whatever. it's a very double standard. i agree with you. if you say it, it's like wow, you're fake, and if you don't, it's like you're a liar, and exactly.

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but it's also like oh, you're setting the.

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beauty standards and people, and you're not saying what you're doing. so you're making people think that you naturally look like this, but then you say it and then they're like oh, you're fake as fuck, like money can't really buy looks like people go on and like, say the nastiest shit, yeah, and it's.

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like. what about it? just being like you wanted to do it for yourself? yeah, like i wanted to feel good.

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so i did. i did them other things too, and that's and that's that, and i don't owe that to anyone and i don't need to like, tell anyone. but like i don't care to like, if someone comes and one of my friends asks me something, i'll be like oh yeah, do this. i literally got my lips tattooed yesterday because, like when you get lip filler, it like ruins the color of your lip. naturally, like i, my lips were so pink and then you get filler and it i swear it like, makes your lips turn almost like white a little.

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so i like, got them tattooed and then it like is this dark color and it peels off and then it just becomes like a natural pink. it looks really good, so that i don't have to wear lip.

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liner all the time. it looks really good, thank you. what was the first procedure you had done?

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lip filler not at a good place. like, do your research? okay, i like, didn't do it good. i looked like like not cute. i had to dissolve it all, get it redone.

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i have like this thing where i talk out of one side of my mouth and one side of my mouth sits higher than the other side. and i've tried to correct it with lip filler so many times that it ends up just looking worse. and now that i like dissolved it all and just like tried to even them out as much when i'm not speaking, i still like. all my comments are her lips are lopsided, like you're so botched. i'm like i literally have like a drop.

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of lip filler on one side of my lip. what does it make you feel when people comment that shit?

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i don't really care. i've like let it get to me so many times and now i'm just like you don't know me, i don't know you. so, like, how are you gonna sit here and like comment on me? like sit and like talk about my lips, like i'm sorry, that's how i talk, like i talk one side of my mouth. that's how i was born.

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so you want to make fun of how i was born and like say that it was my lip fillers, when it's just the way that i speak and the way that my mouth sits and the way my jaw moves, like now you're just being mean. and that sucks like. think about that no one wants to get work done and not have it look good. so like, think about like, okay, someone's getting work done and it doesn't look good. like, do you really think that's how they wanted it to turn out?

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so that's like shitty. and then they like spend all this money and they don't like the way that they look. that's like sad to me, like i feel bad, like i'm not gonna sit there and comment and like be like oh, you look so fucking ugly, like your lips are so fucked. like no, i'm gonna like, if i know the person like, reach out, like, give a recommendation if they like, want to talk about it. but you know and i've said that so many times on my youtube too i'll be like.

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i know you guys are gonna fucking come for my lips again, like you always do and like still. my comments are mean and i'm like. okay, well, if all you mean people have something to say, like, maybe if you commented like hey, girl like, i totally get what you're going through like. here's a place that i've seen on instagram that, like whatever i'd be like, oh my.

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god, that person's so nice. i actually really appreciate that point, though you're like, hey, like if someone's getting work done, they're trying to either enhance something that they like or fix an insecurity. that's what it is. anyone, whether it's all the way down to editing a photo or getting work done. guys, i get it, but like, come on, do you want to know why i did it?

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it's because i felt like fucking shit about myself and like when you're talking about it, it's like, wait, that's such a good point. if, like someone's like, oh, that's botched or that's not cute, i also hate that. so.

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much, because with the editing thing your body could look completely different from one minute to like 10 minutes. like i'll be in the gym and i'll be doing my abs and my abs will be poking out. and obviously that's what i take my story. like my abs will be poking out, but then i'll go and have a protein smoothie and then like eat a whole fucking lunch and my abs aren't showing anymore. and then they're.

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then they'll compare photos like same day. look at the difference. like, oh, she photoshopped that. i feel like everyone's body has changed so much. you uploaded you're on vacation, like i got this one photo, like sneaky, taken of me at a pool and i was blacked out and i was like sitting.

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and i'm like sitting like this and i'm like, yeah, okay, when i sit like this, i have like a roll that hangs out first when i'm stretching and posing and like my abs are popping out and i'm like, how are you gonna like, compare two different poses and like yeah, everyone's body like.

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moves. have you ever gotten anything done that you regretted? i wouldn't say regret, okay, i would say.

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that i've gotten stuff done that i didn't like the results, but not regret. okay, fixable, so you're.

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saying that like something. you didn't like the outcome, but if you had gotten it somewhere else, you would have still wanted it, but you didn't like the result, or you would take it back, i wouldn't? okay? you just didn't like the outcome. yeah, well at, do you want to specify?

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at the time i wanted it?

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and for the time i liked it, but i have taken it back and you've never spoken about your butt. have you had butt implants? i have not had butt implants. the only implants that i have are in my titties, and i'm not saying that i haven't done other things and i haven't, you know, moved some things around or you know. whatever the case may be.

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but i, yeah, just like, feel like i was at a point in my life when i was younger and i felt like my lips needed to be big and my boobs needed to be big, and you know everything. your butt, my butt needed to be big and like. over the past, like a couple years, it's, i've like, made my implants smaller. i've, you know, tried to make everything smaller because i just like the more natural look and i feel like you know you get caught up when you're younger. you like, don't really know, like, like, if you ask me, even like something like a simple question years ago versus now, like you're, you change, you grow up, you like, learn things, you see things differently and like.

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for me, it's just like i like to look like. i want to look natural, i don't want to look plastic, i don't want to look fake. i don't want to look like you know, i want.

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to look natural. i want to look like me. we, as women, are made to feel like we need to fit a mold exactly and, and so i respect you for being honest about it, because it's obvious, but also you're made to.

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feel like, am i? i can't say anything? yeah, like, it's like such a taboo thing to say, and then and then people like we were saying earlier earlier hate you for not saying something or think you're so fake for not saying something, but the second you open up about it, they're like, oh, that fake bitch. and i'm like, no, i was just really fucking young and stupid and like. maybe i don't like to talk about it because i don't like the decision i made when i was fucking 18 to like now me being almost 25, like trying to reverse my dumbness and like.

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maybe it's something i am self-conscious about that i don't like about myself that i, like you know, i'm working to fix for a while it was.

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like tit implants. it's like oh god, it used to be like such a thing, and now it's like oh, she got.

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her tits done. yeah, like my, i had to fix my implant the other day and i was like new, new hair, new tits.

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yeah, yeah, it's like. so like fine to say, but if anyone's like, oh, i got my butt done, it's like.

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you did, you did, oh my god. and now it's like the more natural version of it. like, i have friends who, like you, would never guess, and they've and they've done it. so do you regret when you see your friends like that and you're like and i'm like fuck. i did it so early, i didn't know what.

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i was doing. i should have waited and done that. do you think you had this moment of realizing you didn't maybe want certain things? you did as much and, like you, went a little too far? i don't know.

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there was this one moment where i was like it was. i was just like so insecure, being like i hate this, like i don't want to get in a bathing suit in front of anyone and i was in greece and like i'm greek, so i can understand greek. and i was in greece and i was walking on the beach and i heard this guy talk about me like behind my back, being like something like oh, look at her, like she's so like she's full of plastic, and i like heard him say that and i wanted to start crying. and i was like this is so fucked. i'm about to start crying.

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and yeah, i was like fuck this, it's even down.

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to like makeup and and hair coloring. it's like we're, as women, in a really weird position where, like we've been made to feel like our looks are so important, like, so important, and especially in.

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this like industry. it's like if you're not. if you have like one slip up and you're like not looking your best one time and someone gets a photo, it's like immediately you're a catfish. immediately you're fucked. you're botched.

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you're this, you're that. yeah, it's like you can't have one day where you like are just like hey, i want to like show up with my fucking hair in a ponytail. you can see all my extensions. i have no makeup on, like i'm just chilling. i want to get lunch.

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i do think that you.

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should also be happy with yourself in just terms of like life and growing up and the fact that you're like oh, i'm realizing you know what like. i want to be just like natural style. see, like that's kind of dope too, though you're at that point in your life. i mean it's a little too late for that.

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i'm trying to get there. what were your normal tit size? my boobs were always big. one was just bigger than the other, okay, and they were like a little saggy got the leg here, so i got a lift, painful, i mean. i've had like such problems with my boobs.

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i've had to fix them like multiple times. i have like really thin skin, so my implants like fallen out of the pocket, like multiple times, like dude. my friend carter was telling me this story. i don't even remember it. it was like coachella, like two years ago, and like my skin, just like, is so thin, so it like stretches.

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he was telling me that i was like wasted and or i was super hungover, or something i don't even remember. and he was like trying to get me out of bed to go to this day party. and i was like carter. i literally i'm not going anywhere. my implant just flipped.

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i was like i was like no way. i said that and i remember like, oh my god, my implant like, actually like flipped over one time. wait, so it's like up by like your. no, like like it, just like flipped, like the back was. i don't know why we're laughing this.

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it's really not. it's really not funny, but i had to, like you know, fix it. i put like an internal bra and like hold my implant in my boob. i remember my mom had this saying of like

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you can. you can get a tattoo if you wait for a full two years and you still want that exact thing exactly? do you think that there should be like an age limit? we're allowed to get this.

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shit done. that's really yeah. i don't know. that's such an interesting question, because, like for me, like it is an age thing, but i also feel like it's a times thing, yeah. so it's like yeah, if it was still the same as it was when i was 18 and like when i was 21, if the trend was still kind of the same thing right, then yeah, i would have probably done the same thing at 21, verse 18, but it wasn't.

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and it's not. and it's like just it's. it's like why, like, how are you gonna change your whole life based on like a trend? that's like a couple years, dude. no, it's crazy, because we think about like.

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cargo pants are back in and we're like oh, and then i'll throw them out. jeans, yeah, low-rise jeans, but like completely different. yeah, like an ass and like tits and like lips, and it's like it's.

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like you're cosmetically changing your being like versus like throwing away some jeans. yeah, okay.

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we're gonna do a little rapid fire. oh fuck yeah. this is like kind of like our ending game. okay, who is the last person you searched on instagram? i don't have my phone.

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get your phone.

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it was a clothing company. oh cute, because you were like purchasing off of there. i was asking them to give me clothes. i want to appreciate. well, they give me clothes.

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i was asking for their new.

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stuff who is pinned for your text messages pinned. i have victoria, just like a solo victoria solo.

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victoria, she's the first. yeah, and i have alexis, my manager. just god forbid, crisis happens, as it's happening here today, on call, and then it was just alexis and victoria, but i was me and my friend devin were out drinking and she has like 100 pinned. and i was like why isn't my pinned? and she was like well, you don't have mine pinned, so then we pinned each other's.

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you know what's weird about pinning, is it's harder for you to see the message verse when it's oh in the chat new one.

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would move up and move up in the chat where the others are, just like it doesn't move it just like.

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sometimes shows if you have anyone, and i overlook it sometimes, so i actually don't really like the pin. sorry, victoria, missing all your time. i've got a lot of text. i have 89 texts from just taking this.

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podcast 89 since we've been 89 since we started. who is texting you? three of my group chats. wow, who is the most famous person that you've hooked up with? you're like you're a joke.

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come on, i don't know. okay, give me at least one of the first initials of someone famous that you've hooked.

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up with first initial. yeah, their name. oh, i can do s. it's this, oh sorry.

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i'm really crying and i'm drunk and i'm sweating and i'm trying to okay a recent purchase. you spent too much money on.

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my tits.

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oh, really expensive, really expensive, really expensive, okay, okay, okay, what is the longest?

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you've gone without sex, honestly, a long time, like seven months. okay, you're single right now, more than that, but like recently. okay, it's vibrating a lot, of course. okay, keep it in my.

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shower. are you, are you single? are you happy being single? i mean i want to have a baby in two years.

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i literally told myself i want to have a kid at 22, 24, 26 and 28 and be done with kids four kids by the time i was 28 and then have my 30s to be like sexy raising my kids. i get my bod back and like be cute with my kids. so far you have no kids and i'm also like. what the fuck was i thinking, yeah, like, i'm still, i'm still figuring my shit out. i can barely take care of myself.

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how would you write your head game? sex for me is so funny because i feel like people look at me and they have this like idea that i'm like some, like sex creature, because my body and like you know, just like i don't know and i'm just like, really like. i'm even like more anxiety about sex than i am about social settings, like i don't like to like. just have sex with people, it's not my thing.

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you're not fucking everyone in la? no, absolutely not. not that i think anyone thought that, but i.

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just want. i feel like people think that. do that okay, i definitely think people think that i, just when you go on dates with guys, i've been on one date in my whole life. i don't know. i have, like i like, have such bad anxiety that i'm scared to go on dates like i'm too scared to go, so you when.

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you are just like hooking up with a guy. you just are hanging in the house. it's usually my friends.

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it's usually like in like a hang setting, like in a hang setting like okay, like we're like it's a friend, yeah, we're hanging out and like we end up, like you know, being my little.

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fling? do you find yourself in those more than dating? yes, you just kind of like have a situation.

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and then you move on. yeah, i like was in a relationship when i was really young and i got cheated on and it was like traumatizing. that was kind of, and i don't know if it was like public or not. i feel like people think i was the one who cheated, but i just got cheated on and i and i.

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haven't been in a relationship. i feel like i haven't been the same since i've been in like.

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little flings, but i wouldn't call them like. oh, i had like a full boyfriend. do you want one?

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i wouldn't like oppose. let's start it right here. call her daddy. someone please take this poor girl.

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we're literally yeah, but then, but then they're gonna ask me on a date and i'm gonna be too nervous to go. i'm gonna be like i'm sorry, can we hang out with all my friends together and then maybe after we hang out for the first time with my friends like, oh my god, i'll tell you who after. but this guy, this guy that i've been crushing on, i dm'd him. what did you? i didn't dm him.

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i posted a story of like the movie i was watching right and tagged him like. and then i hit it so no one could see that i tagged it. so it appeared in his dm. pause, that's fucking brilliant. oh you hide the tag.

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i've never. i'm just watching this movie casually. hide the tag. it appears in their dms. and then he dm'd me back and it was like hold on check mark.

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yes, um, but then he invited me like to hawaii and i was like, i'm not going to hawaii to meet you. please, like, i don't know you like, come meet me at the nice guy or something right. and, like you know, nothing ever happened with it, because i wouldn't go to it because i.

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was too nervous. can you give us a um musician actor, sportsman actor, actor. what do you have a?

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type i don't have a type it was. if we could keep all this in, i would literally this would be like

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the number one show in the world. like my, dms are insane, i can't even imagine, but like i don't.

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answer them why? because i don't i have this thing. i don't like find people attractive or like. i can't like. i downloaded rea for a second, like i, and i wouldn't hurt anyone.

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so i would just go and i would just look just because i was bored and like just x everyone. and i don't find people attractive unless i like speak to them in person and like have a conversation. i feel the same. if we don't vibe and we can't and we can't have a conversation and i feel awkward talking to you, then i'm not gonna like you. but if conversation flows easy and we're like yeah, friends, and we can have a conversation, then i start to like you.

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okay, my next question how are you coming?

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like what position during sex is your best way to get off? um, it really depends on the person.

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i like to be on top, because then you can control it on top front or reversed front.

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but i also love a good missionary. yeah, with like a pillow under me underrated. i feel like for girls the way that it feels good for girls on top. it is not the way that it feels really good for guys, if that makes sense. yeah, like the way that the way that a guy wants you to ride isn't how it feels good for us, right like.

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it's not the bouncing he wants you to be like just like bouncing up and down, and it's like more like a grind, because when you're going and they don't.

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get on your um, you put your bottom of your feet on the mattress squat position and i'm like.

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less of that, my guy. yeah, like this stick. no, like, turn around, just hit from the back, like leave me alone. i'm not doing all this work for you. if i'm, if i'm doing work, it's for me.

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do you guys usually want to hit it from behind for the obvious, honestly.

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i would, i don't know. not, it's like. it's never like the first thing, but even like, even like not even the first position, but like, not even like the first time sometimes with someone. it's not like. maybe they're intimidated like yeah, like they can't handle it back there.

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like i'm gonna look small in there. i'm nervous. am i big enough? okay, i love you. okay, okay, what is the wildest kink?

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someone has asked you to be a part of in the bedroom.

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this is so bad, my dog. you know what i give away. i had a bark collar for her. you put on yourself.

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there's reasons why this dog left you for your sister and we are now getting terrified, i would.

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take it off and put it on and then he would have the remote control and control it. oh wait, because it can close in on your and i would like shock the back of my neck, like i would wear it like a collar, and then he was like press the shotgun and like turn it higher if i was like not behaving.

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you're like electric fence bitch. wait, did it hurt or was just like a oh? it was like a oh sauce. we're learning something about you. i know.

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every minute it's so good. morning sex or late night sex depends on the person like. why, i don't know.

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why i'm not sure. i honestly like late night better, because you like get ready for bed. you like brush your teeth. morning sex is always like for me. i'm like don't touch me unless i brush my teeth.

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so if it's right when we wake up, then it's like always a side or like a back, and sometimes i like to yeah, the side of the morning. isn't that bad? no, it's not bad. i wouldn't say it's bad, but i prefer the night for me. yeah, like i like the, you know, embrace each other.

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what was that thing you?

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i was like, bring it, give it to me. have you ever had a guy that like won't make out with you during sex? absolutely not. i met girls right in. be like my boyfriend.

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like won't really like. kiss me while we fuck. do you easily get off from someone going out down on you? if they're good at it, i know. wait, do you know what's so sad?

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i remember i had lana roads on and we were talking about when the guy is going down and he's so earnestly like going at it and you're like, oh my god, like this is so awful. and you're like, okay, just come, fuck me. yeah, literally you pull them up. you're like okay, okay, and you're like transition to like, come on, like. it's so awful when they don't get it i.

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wonder if they know that and the fact that you've said that that's like the girl's code secret when.

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a guy's not good at going down on you, you just pull him up here. baby, fuck me, fuck. you're acting like you can't take it anymore. you can't? you want them so bad.

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but it's like because when in reality you're like, i can't do this anymore. who is your last miss call? and should we call them back right now? because it's rude to leave people on. you know it's kylie.

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i'm gonna call him back. we don't need to. okay, she called me three times. there's an emergency. should you call her back?

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she's like.

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no, i can't be like. i'm on a podcast, i can't? no, it's i just. she's probably just asking if i'm so good in the house, but i'm gonna be here there. you're gonna show up, so drunk.

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i'm going now i'm.

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going after. okay, two more deep ones deep. yeah, okay, what are you insecure about?

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i don't know.

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a lot, some days, some days nothing. okay, it depends on the day. honestly, i don't know.

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you're feeling a little insecure. everything be relatable. saucy, everything, body face fucking.

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anything the way i speak, like some days i'll be insecure about, like my fucking feet, or some days i'll be like, oh, i hate my fucking tattoos, i don't want to show them, or i'm feeling fat, or like whatever it is like. i feel like we pick out at ourselves so much that i try and, just like you know, not to let it get to me. but there's definitely days where i'm like, wow, i fucking hate myself, like um, i just want to lay in bed, cry. what's something that nobody?

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on the internet knows about you, but like your close friends know about you, i mean i feel like.

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just like everyone thinks that. you know, i came from this like rich family and like i'm like a stuck up little bitch who, like, has had everything handed to her in life and that's not the case. like i had to work for what i have and like, yeah, i had an advantage and i'll never like think that i didn't, but i've worked hard to like take care of me and my family.

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and other people around me. you've had a lot of like ties to people because you have friends that are famous. people probably want all this information from you. and how do you like staying loyal to the people in your life, without compromising who you are, and in moments of chaos, in like the tabloids, like, i'm sure, people are, like stas? do you like have the tea?

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do you know?

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how do you? i feel like the people that i'm closest to, who would like ask me questions about other people that they know i would know wouldn't even ask me because they have enough respect for me to like not put me in that position. yeah. so that's what i love about, like my friend group, and you know, if something's getting written in the tabloids, they're not going to be like. oh stas, is this true or not?

[01:01:24.86 - 01:01:40.18]

like they know that, like, i'm not going to tell them. or i would be like, oh, i don't know. or whatever it is that i've never had really an awkward moment except for like once, when i would just be like. oh, i don't know, i don't know. yet from my understanding, i don't know.

[01:01:40.18 - 01:01:45.80]

um, but they just you know, i think they respect me enough to like, not ask me that.

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and i've never had any randoms like or not random. so like acquaintances, even feel comfortable enough to ask me questions about other people. you're kind of that like ride or die chick.

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Speaker 2
[01:01:56.42 - 01:02:19.96]

that, like you're keeping. i just want to protect everyone. yeah, i remember following you on social media so long ago and like not having really much about you other than like. she's a really hot chick and she looks like she's got a cool life. so it's cool to sit down with you, and i know you don't do interviews and i appreciate you sitting down with me, because it gives like more insight into who you are, your background without getting too deep, and just like chilling with you and talking with you.

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Speaker 1
[01:02:19.96 - 01:02:28.42]

has been fun. so i appreciate you. it's been so fun. i appreciate you, my first and only interview. so don't ask me again, do another one.

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you're like i'm never coming back on goodbye. no, i'll come on. i'll come on, call your daddy anytime you want me. this is the best thing ever i had so much fun. i mean i'm like tipsy, having fun talking to, like a friend.

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so fun, it's not scary. when i do an interview, i get so scared because i feel like they want me to fuck up something and like say something fucked and try.

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Speaker 2
[01:02:46.06 - 01:02:50.02]

and like trip your words up. that's not the goal. we're just trying to have fun, just trying to have.

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Speaker 1
[01:02:50.02 - 01:02:56.82]

fun and drink some sunny cheers bitch. i love you, i love you, oh fuck. i have one sip left.

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